Self-Esteem


Life is not fair - get used to it!
人生並不公平-你得要適應這個現實。
世界不會在意你的自尊,人們看的只是你的成就。

01.   If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. He doesn't have tenure.
    如果你認為師長對你太嚴,等你有了上司你就會知道什麼是真正的嚴。在學校,老師會幫助你學習,到公司卻不會。如果你認為學校的老師要求你嚴格,那是你還沒有進入公司打工。因為,如果公司對你不嚴厲,你就要失業了。【你必須清醒地認識到:公司比學校更要嚴格要求自己】

02.   Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
    電視裡演的並非現實。現實生活中,人不會一直娛樂,而得要去工作。人們都喜歡看電視劇,但你不要看,那並不是你的生活。只要在公司工作,你是無暇看電視劇的。【奉你不要看,否則你走上看電視連續劇之路,而且看得津津有味,那你將失去成功的資格】

03.   Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.
    對你討厭的人友善點,因為有一天他可能會是你老闆。永遠不要在背後批評人,尤其不能批評你的老闆無知,刻薄和無能。【因為這樣的心態會使你走上坎坷艱難的成長之路,最優秀的人才,未必就是最適合企業發展的員工】

04.   If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
    就算事情做不好,也不能遷怒你父母,那並不是你父母的錯。別埋怨你碰到的,應該要從挫折中記取教訓。當你陷入人為困境時,不要抱怨,你只能默默地學習。【你要悄悄地振作起來,重新奮起】

05.   Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they now are. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you are. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parents' generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.
    你的長輩其實可以不必像現在這麼煩你。他們之所以要如此,是因此他們一直在付你的帳單、清洗你的衣服、清你的垃圾。想要減輕你長輩的負擔,請先從清除你房裡的汙垢做起。你要懂得:在沒有你之前,你的父母並不像現在這樣“乏味”。你應該想到,這是他們為了撫養你所付出的巨大代價。【你永遠要感恩和孝敬他們,才是硬道理】

06.   Your school may have done away with winners and losers but life has not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as many times as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
    在學校念書時可能不分贏家或輸家,但人生並非如此。在學校裡,不及格的分數只要付學費就可以一直重修,現實世界裡的機會可沒那麼多。在學校裡,你考第幾已不是那麼重要,但進入社會卻不然。不管你去哪裡,都要分等排名。【社會,公司要排名次,是常見的事,要鼓起勇氣競爭才對】

07.   Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time.
    人生不會以學期劃分。人生沒有暑假。很少有老闆會幫你發現自我,你得自己去做。學校裡有節假日,到公司打工卻不然,你幾乎不能休息,很少能輕鬆地過節假日。【否則你的職業生涯中一起跑就落後了,甚至會讓你永遠落後】

08.   Flipping burger is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping they called it opportunity.
    去餐廳打工並不會讓你有失身分,長輩對你去做基層工作會稱之為-機會。社會充滿不公平現象。你先不要想去改造它,只能先適應它。【因為你管不了它】

09.   The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
    這個世界並不會關心你的內興,想要讓自己好過一點,就得先做些什麼事。世界不會在意你的自尊,人們看的只是你的成就。在你沒有大業以前,切勿過分強調自尊。【因為你越強調自尊,越對你不利】

10.   You will NOT make 40 thousand dollars a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone, until you earn both.
    不可能躺著就可以有數萬元薪水,你得費自己力氣去賺。你只是中學畢業,通常不會成為CEO,直到你把CEO職位拿到手為止。【直到此時,人們才不會介意你只是中學畢業】

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